Recently I was feeling bummed out about dating. My lovely friend C, who first considerately asked if I wanted advice or validation, passed along this gem of a pep talk that she heard from a girl we know named Sammy. And I loved it so much that I want to share it with you, and anyone who has ever felt less than because a person they liked treated them poorly. This was originally written for women, but can easily work for anyone regardless of gender/sexuality.
When someone treats you badly, erase them from your phone. DELETE, DELETE, DELETE.
They just don’t like you and that’s okay. I know it sucks but that’s why you erase them from your phone to symbolize erasing their negative energy from your life.
You are a strong beautiful woman. Your emotions are not controlled by people who aren’t worth your time.
YOU ARE A WARRIOR PRINCESS AND YOU TAKE NO PRISONERS.
After a dark time where the boy I loved most crushed me, I adopted the motto GET YOURS and from that point on every decision I made was about me and getting what I needed and wanted and it revolutionized my dating life.
And I have relayed this tale to you because I love you and want you to get yours.
You’re fucking worth it.